This morning was filled with humor for me. My 16-year-old daughter has a boyfriend for the first time and this morning she asked if we could swing by the grocery store and grab a little box of chocolates for him.
I’ve been single for over seven years so I’ve been out of the Valentine’s Day loop for quite some time and after this morning I am glad. As we ventured to the grocery store the sea of terrified men swarmed the floral department. Balloons, candy, flowers in hand. I don’t mean to sound cynical because I am not but the pressure those men were feeling to purchase that stuff, the stressful expressions on their faces - somewhere the meaning is getting lost. I wasn’t seeing any love in their eyes just a look of grab, spend and hope it makes her happy.
I looked up the meaning of Valentine’s Day. We celebrate Valentine's Day, because until 1969, it was one of the many Saint's Days observed by the Catholic Church. It was dedicated to the patron saint of romantic causes, St. Valentine.
It wasn't until 1537 that St. Valentine's day was declared an official holiday. England's King Henry VIII, known for his ways of disposing of wives, declared February 14th a holiday. It was another century and a half before religious devotional cards became non-religious cards to reflect the change in the holiday. On February 14, the ancient Romans celebrated the Feast of Lupercalia in honor of Juno, the queen of the Roman gods and goddesses. Juno was also the goddess of womesn and marriage so honoring her was thought to be a fertility rite.
At the feast held the next day, the women would write love letters and stick them in a large urn. The men would pick a letter from the urn and for the next year, pursue the woman who wrote the chosen letter. This custom lasted until the 1700s when people decided their beloveds should be chosen by sight, not luck.
Even the origination of this holiday seems a little twisted. My thought for the day is make it meaningful in your own way, don’t let commercialism seep into your life, keep it simple.
Happy Valentine’s Day Everyone.